Do you have friends that you learn from?
You know the friends that have it all together, the ones that really have a good life and how they inspire you?
Even the ones that have it all backwards, the ones that maybe you even avoid from time to time and how they inspire you in terms of what not to do?
It can be what to do or what not to do. At the end of it all Success leaves many bread crumbs. Success leaves clues right?
Let me tell you about my friend named Lloyd.
He is a carpenter by trade, some projects at work required him to use a hammer.
Lloyd had this nasty habit of hitting his thumb with the hammer instead of the metal nail.
After several run ins with the hammer soar tenderized thumb, Lloyd decide it was time to visit a doctor about the resolving the pain he was having.
The 1st doctor visit went rather well.
The doctor asked him what was wrong and what were his symptoms. Lloyd stated he was having a soreness of thumb and the doctor recommended to go home and get some rest that he would be fine in a day or two.
Sure enough Lloyd follow the doctor’s orders and in a short amount of time the throbbing and soreness ceased in Lloyd’s thumb.
Supper happy Lloyd reported to work refreshed and with a brand new thumb.
A few hours into his shift WHAM-hammer to thumb. This repeated throughout the course of a few days from being at work.
Finally Lloyd went to the doctor again.
Again the doctor asked him what was wrong and what were his symptom. Lloyd pretty much stated the same thing soreness of thumb, but he added sharp pain and bruising.
The doctor listened intently left the office to consult his books and 30 minutes later came back with a prescription for pain killers.
Immediately, of course, Lloyd did as the doctor prescribed. He filled his prescription, next thing you know he was popping pain killers left and right like gummy bears.
Lloyd loved those pain killers. Hour after hour he took a few pain pills to recover from the damage he did to his thumb.
He felt better in a couple of days and back to the grind.
Lloyd went to work prepared with his pain killers in his pocket and a hammer on his hip. He was ready for his work day.
Only to find the hammer and nail routine. WHAM! You guessed it.
Eventually poor Lloyd ran out of pain killers and when the medicine wore off he had to take an emergency visit to the doctor.
Lloyd’s frail thumb was deformed and intense pain pounding away.
This time the doctor drew some blood and took some x-rays. After running all the medical test the doctor sat next to Lloyd’s hospital bed and told him that his thumb would have to be surgically removed….
With wide eyes of horror Lloyd’s face appeared go white with fear to pale pea green of queasiness because his stomach couldn’t take the thought of his thumb being severed from his hand.
In a flash Lloyd gathered his belongings and ran out the hospital.
He called me in a panic with tears in his throat. It broke my heart to hear the frustration in his voice. As I calmed him down with words of encouragement ensuring him that everything was going work out, I recommended my personal doctor.
Bright and early Lloyd entered the new doctor’s office. This time the doctor took one look at Lloyd’s thumb. He asked Lloyd what happened to his thumb? Of course Lloyd said innocently at work and that he hits his thumb with a hammer on average 7 times a day.
Can you guess what the doctor prescribed?
The doctor sternly looked at Lloyd with sincerity the doctor advised Lloyd to get a new occupation!
Hot dog, gummy bears and tv.
Month’s passed Lloyd had a new job and wouldn’t you know it his thumb was completely healed.
Now I am sure most of you guys get the bigger picture. You know the whole symptom vs root cause.
Originally I read about the Lloyd type story pertaining to holistic medicine but when I really started to think about the symptom vs root cause. It dawned on me that this concept shows up in other areas in our lives not just health.
Think about it what symptom keeps popping up in your life?
In the beginning of this year did you set some New Year Resolution?
What were they and why did you set them?
Did any of these resolutions align with improving the quality of your life on some level.
This is the perfect time to be honest with yourself.
Could it be that some the resolutions were addressing symptoms?
When we treat the symptoms we can say it easier to sooth the symptom.
It is easier when we have a runny noes or soar throat to grab some over the counter medicine than to think about what we ate. To face facts of sugar actually weakens the immune system and then if we are eating fast food and always on the go which of course affects the immune system too. Oh and if we have not been eliminating all the junk food we consumed than maybe that is why we are sick or with the “common cold.”
Or that we have type two diabetes typically people take insulin prescribed by the doctor but rarely do we look at all the hot dogs, gummy bears or lack of exercise because of the routine of work and going home to watch TV.
It is easier to deal with the symptoms because usually there at the surface is a quick fix.
Don’t ask me to give up my double cheese burger that I have had a life long affair with.
Facing the root cause of the symptom can be painful with in itself. It can be down right uncomfortable facing the accumulation of the daily decisions we have made over the course of our life can be too sobering to bare.
It is like don’t make me give up the very thing that caused the pain to begin with.
Even on the emotional side.
Personal experience I had phases in my life were I was depressed. My thoughts were poisonous to me. But I could have written it off that it runs in my family. I could have chosen to have been an alcoholic to sooth the chatter in my head.
I could have just blamed it on demons that I was being under attack and kept suffering in my life. It took years but daily choosing to build my thoughts with the renewing of my mind. Reading books and learning to love my self. Depression may knock at my door from time to time but because I dealt with the root cause it may knock but I don’t answer anymore.
You have to committed to dealing with the root cause to make a decision for your victory.
Child of God don’t you remember that absolutely NO weapon formed against you shall prosper.
Or how about let him with the faith of the size of a mustard seed speak to the mountain and let that mountain be removed and cast into the ocean.
You have the power, courage and strength just call upon it those symptoms can disappear but you must be willing to deal with the root cause.
In the end everything affects everything. But being willing to form new habits replacing the old habit that caused the symptom to begin with can affect your life in magical ways!